is there a fine line between being a stalker and being an admirer? if so, where is that line anyway?!?
if you think you are being stalked by someone on Y/A do you confront them about it or what? (um, to clear this up, I think I am the stalker to be maybe…have I crossed that unseen line?!)
I’m not sure if I follow you.
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Help, in a 12 month lease and need to get out of it. Very scared to live in this house !?
My family moved from Ohio to Florida 60 days ago. We found a house to rent on line and rented it sight unseen because we lived 1200 miles away. We paid first and last months rent and security deposit before we moved. When we pulled into the driveway of this house we realized we were in a very unsafe neighborhood and we have been terrified ever since. We have tried to reason with the realtor company and they will not let us out of our 12 month lease. We are afraid for our lives. We have heard gunshots and have had police four doors down from us for a shooting. Someone has cut our fence in an attempt, in our belief, to steal our dogs, we have three little peek a poos. Also, besides being so scared there are other things that we feel we were mislead on in this house. We have a brand new washer, dryer and chest freezer outside in the rain and so forth because the realtors showed a picture of a shed and told us there was electric and washer dryer hook ups in it. They lied. The realtor that we were talking to did tell us that, but the listing realtor said that isn’t her problem and she is not the one that misled us. The air conditioner and refrigerator were both in not working order and took them over a month to get repaired. Now we are trying to buy a house and our offer was accepted on the house we found and just waiting for the closing date to be settled which could be in two weeks. In the meantime our rent is due tomorrow and remember we paid last months rent before we moved in. Should we pay our rent ? How much trouble are we going to be in for breaking our lease by moving out early ?
I greatly appreciate the answers I have received so far. I would like to add a few details. We are not trying to screw anyone over here. We made a few major mistakes. The biggest was moving in here without investigating the area. In my defense, NAIVE. We listened to the realtor and shouldn’t have taken her word for it. The reason we are looking to buy a home is because to rent a house in a nice neighborhood you are going to pay at least 2k a month. We can own our own home in a nice area for half that. We are not rich and moved here because my husband was losing his job and had a decent offer for another with a little better pay and health insurance. I will pay the rent because yes that is the right thing to do. My biggest question now is doesn’t anybody have a heart ? Our whole family is scared and all anyone is worried about is the poor landlord.
There are 3 issues here. You feeling safe, the landlord not providing what was promised and you buying a house.
First the safe issue. This is NOT!!! a reason that you can cancel the lease. You SHOULD HAVE researched the area and even if you lived 1200 miles away, you could have researched the area via the internet, police reports, etc. This was YOUR FAULT. With that being said, if you truly fear for your safety, then move and worry about what the landlord will do. Your safety doesn’t have a price. However, if this goes to court, you will NOT win on this issue.
If you are getting ready to settle on a house, I have the feeling that you actually started looking as soon as you moved in to the rental. This doesn’t make your case look good. I would have to assume that you want to buy a house and are now looking for grounds to break your lease.
It appears that you are going to break your lease no matter what. Should you pay the rent? Yes because you owe it. But I sure you will not.
Trouble? They can sue you for all the rent until they rerent the place.
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What you have written under the additional information is of NO concern to this situation. Bottom line, you have a lease and a legal responsiblity to fulfill it.
you moved to the area without doing YOUR OWN research which would be very easy. At the very least, you could have used google earth and had a birds eye view of the street and the whole area.
Why are Americans so Violent Paranoid?
It seems that since before the inception of the republic of the United States of America, it has been filled mainly with those whom are both paranoid and prone to violence as a result. When you look at how the world views the U.S.A, one can attribute a great deal of the hatred towards it to actions caused by the violent paranoia the U.S.A displays.
An example of internal violent paranoia (ie. paranoia existing inside the U.S.A) is the gun culture. No country on the planet has more peace time gun related deaths than the U.S.A. and supporters of the gun culture cling to a flimsy line in the constitution, claiming they must hold on to their guns for dear life in case the king of England attempts to reclaim the U.S.A, or they must use violent force on their government. The very idea that the people of the United States would need to use guns against their government is a great example of Violent Paranoia in of itself.
The myriad of conspiracy theorists who live in the U.S.A is another great example of internal paranoia; and they exist in a number unseen by any other developed western country. For other countries, conspiracy theorists are on the fringes of society, few and far between, regularly ridiculed. However in the United States there are so many conspiracy theorists with their different paranoid ideas about how the government or the world is out to get them next, that they’re able to form friendship groups, meet regularly and "try to discover the truth". lol
Externally, the Cold War of the 80’s is a great example of violent paranoia displayed by the United States. It’s a display that is echoed through-out history by the U.S.A whenever another country develops weapons of equal or greater power than your own. Lets take a more modern example in Iraq & Iran. According to official public claims by those in charge, the U.S.A went into Iraq looking for "Weapons of Mass Destruction" simply because Sadam didn’t want to have to submit his country to the ever watchful eye of the UN and because of their nuclear power program. Of course no "weapons of mass destruction" where ever found, showing just how paranoid the U.S.A really is. In Iran, the U.S.A is preparing to attack there as well, again over their nuclear power program and the irrational fear that because a country is developing civil nuclear power, that they may be developing nuclear weapons, and on the off chance might use those fictional nuclear weapons against the U.S.A.
Even the "terrorist" events that occurred on September 11, 2001 were in part caused by the violent paranoia of the U.S.A. In reality the "terrorist" attack inside the United States was a retaliation to over a decade of U.S lead violence on civilians through-out the middle east. I don’t know about you, but if another country kept bombing civilian houses, I’d inspire to kill them too. This decade of U.S lead violence was again the result of more irrational fears on the behalf of the United States.
Even the amount of money, time and effort which goes into stockpiling and developing weapons in the United States is an example of their violent paranoia. It is so much so that a great deal of the U.S.A economy rests on the need for continued war.
So, with all of those examples in mind, just why is the United States so paranoid? No other western country is paranoid in the same way, and as a result none of them have the same image problems as the united states do. Is it something in the water, or did England just dump all the fruit cakes in the U.S.A during colonisation?
This isn’t supposed to be a rant. I apologise for the long winded nature of the question, the bulk of which is made up of examples. If you don’t need examples you can just read the first and last paragraphs.
This is a genuine question, as I would like to understand what it is specifically about those who live in the United States of America that makes them behave in this way…
Kro, after you stopped talking about how the English treated the united states, your points started to demonstrate the violent paranoia displayed by the United States even further.
America was founded through colonization, a process that aims to conquer inhabitants and acquire cheap labor and resources for the purpose of financial gain. The idea that America was founded for religious freedom is absolutely crazy. If religious freedom was the true reason, why was an entire race of people, Native Americans, slaughtered and pushed off their land? Early explorers are known for cutting off Native American’s hands who did not bring them back an ample amount of gold. And Eastern America was by no means a gold mining area. America gained its position over England and Europe through the trade cotton African slaves planted and harvested. But not just America is guilty. Western European countries have colonized and destroyed both Africa and India.
Western Civilization period is violent and everybody should paranoid. If you came to power and rule by force, your demise will probably come in the same fashion.
“Invisible” New Jonas L.A Song & Lyrics (:
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Here is the unseen footage of Joe Jonas singing Jonas L.A’s new song “Invisible” featuring a bit of Nick.
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Peace.
Love.
Jonas.
I can feel you all around
In the silence I hear the sound
Of your footsteps on the ground
And my heart slows down
So now I’m
I’m waiting for the moonlight
So I can find you
In this perfect dream
Don’t think that you can
Hide there in the shadows
Girl your not invisible
Your all that I can see
Ohhh Oh yeah
Somethings changing deep inside
All my hopes are comin’ alive
As we’re fading into the night
I can see your eyes
So I keep on
I’m waiting for the moonlight
So I can find you
In this perfect dream
Don’t think that you can
Hide there in the shadows
Girl your not invisible
I’m waiting for the moonlight
So I can find you
In this perfect dream
Don’t think that you can
Hide there in the shadows
Girl your not invisible
Girl your not invisible
Your all that I can see
And my heart slows down
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The Referee Was Correct – Frank Lampards Shot Did Not Go Over The Line [Unseen Footage].flv
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Here it is guys. Proof right here.The Referee Was Correct – Frank Lampards Shot Did Not Go Over The Line [Unseen Footage]
England’s World Cup ended in a mixture of humiliation and controversy as they were thrashed by Germany in Bloemfontein.
Germany’s deserved victory and convincing victory margin will be overshadowed forever in the minds of Fabio Capello and his squad by a moment they believe robbed them of the hope of reaching the last eight.
Matthew Upson had thrown England a lifeline just before half-time after a vastly superior Germany had taken a stranglehold on the game with goals from Miroslav Klose and Lukas Podolski.
But moments after Upson’s header, in a grim echo of Geoff Hurst goal that helped England to victory over West Germany in the 1966 World Cup Final, Frank Lampard’s superb lofted finish landed feet over the line behind German keeper Manuel Neuer, an incident obvious to almost everyone inside the Free State Stadium.
Capello was leading the England celebrations in his technical area, only to be stunned as Uruguayan referee Jorge Larrionda and his officials waved play on.
England’s players and management, including David Beckham, led vehement protests as the teams went off at half-time, but all to no avail and Germany made the most of their reprieve.
The Germans will feel a measure of justice has been restored 44 years on, but this was of no consolation to the modern-day England as insult was added to injury by Joachim Loew’s gifted young side.
Lampard struck the bar as England dominated the early stages of the second half, but stunning counter-attacks saw Thomas Mueller score twice in the space of three minutes midway through the second half to send Germany into the last eight.
England, with some justification, will bemoan their luck but nothing must disguise the manner in which they were outclassed by Germany in stages of this game and also what has been an ultimately bitterly disappointing World Cup campaign in South Africa.
The brief hope of revival offered by victory against Slovenia that saw England advance to the knockout phase was snuffed out emphatically here by their old World Cup adversaries.
England paid the price for sloppy defending that gifted Germany goals – with central defenders John Terry and Upson having their immobility exposed in embarrassing fashion.
Wayne Rooney will return home having had minimal impact on the World Cup, and Capello himself must examine how England can move forward after being handed this painful lesson by Germany.
Capello chose to keep faith with Upson – but the defender was the central figure in a moment of defending that was almost indescribably bad as Germany took the lead after 20 minutes.
Germany keeper Neuer’s long clearance was routine, but both Upson and Terry were caught out of position, with the West Ham defender compounding his misjudgement by being brushed aside for Klose to stab home.
England keeper David James, who had earlier saved well from Mesut Ozil, prevented England from falling further behind with a crucial block from Klose as he raced clear, but it was only a temporary reprieve as Germany extended their lead 12 minutes later.
Again England were all at sea defensively, with Podolski left with time and space to score from an angle after Klose and Mueller carved them wide open.
England needed a swift response to at least have some hope of mounting a revival, and it came from Upson as he made amends for his earlier error. He beat the flailing Neuer to Steven Gerrard’s cross to head into an unguarded net.
Then came the moment of huge controversy that will haunt England and Capello for years to come. Even from high in the stands at the Free State Stadium, it was clear Lampard’s audacious chip had travelled well over the line behind Neuer, but as Capello celebrated, England were stunned to find play waved on.
Lampard’s ill-luck continued as England made a purposeful start the second half. He fired in a free-kick from 25 yards, but it rebounded off the bar with the static Neuer beaten.
The danger was always that Germany would strike on the counter attack, and they did to deadly effect as Mueller reopened their two-goal advantage after 67 minutes.
From and England free-kick Gareth Barry lost possession on the edge of Germany’s area, allowing them to sweep to the other end for Mueller to fire past James from Bastian Schweinsteiger’s pass.
And it was all over three minutes later, with Barry at fault again. He failed to deal with a clearance near the touchline, letting in Ozil to provide Mueller with a simple finish.
England had nothing left to offer and their World Cup campaign ended with a whimper – although they will complain bitterly about the moment they will feel had a decisive effect on the outcome of the game.
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Why do people feel the need to be different?
What does it achieve? Is there some sort of unseen link between superiority and being different? So being different is done to feel superior? Then what does feeling superior achieve? More access to mates, jobs, social status etc? Then what does mating, working and having a higher social status achieve? Why is being different seen as a better alternative than doing what you’re told and keeping in line? MIND-BUZZZZZZZ
I hope you realize that what you said in there is a very poor argument for conformity, don’t ya? I’d babble a little about the fallacy called argumentum ad populum, but you’d probably get bored, so I won’t.
The thing is, the way of the majority is not always the best way. Sure, sometimes it can be, but sometimes it isn’t. Sometimes a sh*tload of people can be wrong about something. If the one person that is right about it is being silenced by the angry majority, progress is halted. Remember that once upon a time, people could not fathom the idea that the Earth revolves around the Sun and not vice versa. The world needs this kind of "heretics".
Secondly, you said something in there about "doing what you’re told". That assumes a leader that tells you what to do. Which leader is not infallible, by the way. You can also be prompted to do bad or useless things.
Thirdly, it may not be the differences themselves that need to be valued, but the fact that you have the freedom to be different. What you said there is also one of the arguments totalitarian regimes used in order to keep people under their command. The majority has no right to tell an individual what he can or cannot do as long as he’s not harming anybody.
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